Incubate or Rebuke
TD Jakes said If you are waiting for your feelings to line up with your decisions, your life will always be on hold. You do not have to ask your emotions to allow you be who you are meant to be. Everybody has some angst, some fear, some negative voice but some people rebuke it and other people birth those feelings. The difference between rebuking and birthing those emotions, is how long you have been nurturing the thought. The thought comes like a seed in mind you can either incubate it and carry it through three trimesters and birth it in your failure or you say this is not mine. You are not your thinking. Take captive thoughts and make them obedient to Christ. Invite someone to take a closer look at Christ and his church.