Fear and the call of God

How do we make decisions as to which direction to go when we have two or three options? In my walk with God If there is one of the options in particular that I do not care for, if any of the reasoning has fear intimidation or insecurity keeping me away from the option I consider that there may be a blessing in the option. Now I have to be really honest with myself in order to move forward, but I do now know that the call of God often has an element of fear within it. The twelve spies had the option of going into the land or refusing to go, they were scared and intimidated by the size of the people. but there was a blessing in the fact that land flowed with milk and honey. Invite someone to take a closer look at Christ and his church