We want to know the outcome before we do the invite we can be anxious about each detail. Is it the right service, is it the right preacher, will my fellow congregational members behave! Being a control freak is a coping style covering deep anxiety. We keep anxiety at bay by in the end finding reasons not to invite. I am a recovering control freak myself, and still have it in my life as a major issue. Face your anxiety today and know that faith in the presence of God can replace control. Invite someone to take a closer look at Christ and his church.