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Living on the edge

When we fear failure we play small because we think it will protect us but it is stealing our voice. We need to play on the outer edge of our envelope. If we are not doing one thing a day that puts a lump in our throats or a pit in our stomachs then we […]

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A New Perspective

What advice would I give to someone facing the fears I am now facing? Sometimes when you reflect on the fear itself in order to help someone else overcome the same fear, you get a new perspective on the situation. The change in the role brings a change in perspective. It can bring about a change in […]

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Thrive

We have taught for so long that fear is an inherent weakness with which we have been born. But what if fear were a tool that could could unlock some of the greatest productive, innovative ideas, a tool that was beneficial and enabling. Fear brings one hundred per cent alertness, full attention, and brings the marshalling […]

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Two steps beyond disappointment

I want to explore the gap between our expectations and reality when our inviting of someone does not pan out. We all have our script of what should be and if that does not work out then there is that fear of am I failing?Or am I not measuring up? Or Am I just hopelessly off […]

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Fear a Constant Companion

Fear is a God-given super power. It can make you faster, cleverer and stronger. You are always going to feel fear even if you learn to hide it. Dr Who’s assistant Clara Oswald said in an episode called Listen ‘Fear is like a companion, a constant companion always there. Fear makes companions of us all.’ […]

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Premonitions

Whenever I mention inviting someone often people have a vision of the outcome of invitation. This vision however has been turned into premonition of a bad outcome. They won’t like it. I will lose them as a friend etc.etc. In Star Wars Yoda gives advice to Anakin about premonitions. ‘Careful you must be when sensing […]

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Gauging Risk

We lose the ability to gauge risk and we begin to assume that if we are afraid we must be in danger even when we aren’t. It is this mis-perception that fuels fear. This mis-perception can be broken down to four things Anticipating the worst Envisioning failure Underestimating our own resourcefulness Telling ourselves we can’t cope […]

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