Last week I received a critical comment for not showing a person how to deal with the problems revealed in the Seminar as to what are the reasons why we don’t invite our friends. This was not an unfair comment my unlocking strategy is based on the idea that ‘when you get the what, you will know the how.’ In other words when you still the full picture, then what to do becomes very apparent, it will suggest itself. So what behind the critical comment what might be in the way of their understanding about what to do next? What’s in the way of it is a much more interesting question than what to do next. What was still blocking their relationship with God? Invite someone to take a closer look at Christ and his church.