How to become Serial Inviters
Professor of Psychology Anders Ericsson recommends Deliberate Practice
1. The specific goal for improvement is to invite on a very regular basis almost daily
As this challenge will exceed skill (we cannot learn anything if we can already do it). And we all do not like it when challenge exceeds skill. We will reluctantly go into this space unless urged to by someone.
2. Therefore find a learning partner
The lag between invitation and feedback can be so long as to be ineffectual
3. Therefore there should be immediate feedback
4. Repetition Repetition Repetition Repetition until you can repeated to level of automaticity that you can practically do it without conscious effort.